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Dying to Control – Living in Peace

September 6, 2021 by Rosemary Welch

The definition of a paradigm is, “a change from one way of thinking to another.” When I first realized I did not (not could I) carry the weight of the world on my shoulders c(although I tried), was the first moment I understood the meaning of true peace, God’s peace. This does not, however, mean that I don’t slip back to my old ways when I am not carefully obedient. It gets easier with time and practice and patience. For others it may even be easier to die to self and live through faith. I praise God that helps us all. Today’s verses: Proverbs 19:21; Psalm 16:11; Psalm 19:21; Proverbs 3:5-6; and Colossians 1:16-17. Have a blessed day.

A paradigm is a person’s frame of reference. Their paradigm is how they see the world based on all the information they have gathered and the beliefs they possess. A “paradigm shift” occurs when our usual way of thinking about or doing something is replaced by a new and different way of thinking or acting. Paradigm shifts often occur around what we call “AHA moments”, when we suddenly understand something in a new or different way, allowing us to see the world in a new light.

As we venture through our teenage years and mature into young adults, most of us start recognizing that we have a paradigm of control within us. I refer to this as our inner “control freak.” It is sometimes dominant, sometimes abated. In this paradigm, we often think that we are the center of our world. That we are in charge and that everything will go according to our plans. As time and age bring wisdom, we learn that we cannot control other people or circumstances. However, it is imperative to know that we can control our responses. 

The response of “letting go of control and letting God” have His way in our lives is a choice to unload the pressure of outcomes. Through faith, yielding ultimate control of the “uncontrollable things” leads to a peace of mind that brings rest. This is a dying to live. The burden is shifted. As we walk, yielded to His higher purposes, life will become a more beautiful journey. Our “control-freak” often leads us down a road full of resentment, exhaustion, disbelief, and disappointment. 

Don’t get me wrong. Life is full of choices that we do control. We can control the temperature in our house, decide what we are going to eat for dinner, etc. But there is so much beyond our control like the weather, others’ behaviors, the news, and many circumstances. We do have the personal responsibility to do all that we can do, but then to trust God with that which we cannot do. Everything in this universe belongs to the Lord. He is actually in control of all things. He even gives humans choice. He will bring glory to His children, He will protect His children, He will carry the burdens of His children. In Him, all things hold together. I am grateful that I am not in charge of the world and I can find rest in that. Someday, we will need to make a paradigm shift from wanting control to wanting the rest that comes from trusting He is in control. Is today that day?

Ponder:

How can you die to your inner “control freak” and choose to walk in a trust in our good, good Father? How can you walk in more of the peace that He offers? 

Prayer:

Dear Father God, I am so exhausted by trying to be in charge of my entire world. Teach me Your ways and give me the grace to yield to Your greater plans for my life. Help me shift my paradigm from desiring control to yielding Your perfect control. In Jesus’ precious name I pray. Amen.

Proverbs 19:21. There are many devices in a man’s heart; nevertheless the counsel of the LORD, that shall stand.

Psalm 16:11. Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.

Psalm 9:10. And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek thee.

Proverbs 3:5‭. Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Colossians 1:16‭. For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him: 17. And he is before all things, and by him all things consist.

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  1. on September 6, 2021 at 6:59 pm Priti

    Yes absolutely everything in the Universe belongs to God and we can’t control everything but He can . So we have to keep enourmus faith on him. Well written 👌🌹❣️



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